Kya aapne kabhi kise se pyaar kiya……?
Kya aapne kabhi kise ko dil diya……….?
Kya wo ‘introvert’ thi(a)?
If not, toh parheye ga jrur.
Caution! You may fall in love with an introvert.
Mr. Darcy from the Pride and Prejudice, Levin from Anna Karenina, Jamie Sullivan from a walk to remember or Naina from YJHD. From classics to the current era, introverts have always been the perfect partners.
Here are the 7 Reasons Why you should date an introvert :
1. Listen! Listen! Listen, They will always listen.
At the end of the day, we all love when there is somebody out there who just patiently listens to the things and understands them the way we wish. Deep listeners, they are. Communication gaps can be bridged easily with active listening. They are someone in the crowd you unveil your heart in front of.
2. Chiku will not message you time and again.
Introverts by nature enjoy their own company. They very well understand the importance of ‘me’ time. You don’t find the relationship being a hindrance in your personal zone and in your time with F. R. I. E. N. D. S.
You won’t find your phone popped up with notifications from your chiku time and again.
(Reference Pyaar Ka Punchnama 2).
3. They ain’t impulsive
You will raise your brows with amazement seeing their composure. Your relation will probably last more than the Sath Janams’ of Indian TV soaps since they ain’t take decisions in haste. She will come up with weird solutions to your more weird problems.
4. Rose to your Jack
(‘My heart will go on’ from the Titanic playing at the background).
Introverts don’t make people their priority usually. If you the lucky one have the mercy to be their love interest, you will get their undivided attention. They will do all those little things that will make you fall in love with them every single moment of the day. Just so you know, it doesn’t happen with them frequently and it is a big deal to them.
5. Her mystery will make you wonder.
These are those creatures who don’t want to be the centre of attention. They carry lots of secrets inside their hearts. These are revealed only if you’re really close to them. You will unfold a complete new side every time you meet them. This keeps your relationship going on and you two not getting bored of each other. Someday she might come up and say, “Would you please, with cherries on the top, marry me?”
6. Always Seeking more from life.
They are head strong when it comes to realizing their dreams. This makes them persistently putting efforts towards achieving their goals. Believe it or not but this thing in your partner has a direct affect upon you and your goals and dreams. She is the one who will always motivate you to go after your dream. Naina can stay from bunny but can’t let bunny stay away from his dreams.
(and if you don’t know Naina and bunny, make sure you go and watch the movie today.)
7. The serenity and calmness with which she carries herself is inexplicable.
They are calm in the chaos because they seek solace in solitude. The calmness helps them stay with you even at your lowest. She will always be your happy place.
So love is in air for you, go find yourself a introvert before she finds somebody else.
About the Author:
Ankita Kukar (PGGCG 11)