Ever felt that someone out there has been made for you? (Oh yes! Clichéd) There is a Raj waiting for his Simran. Well, that’s what we’ve all grown up dreaming about! Many of us give an edge to our practical half thus, conditioning our brains into believing that it’s unrealistic and stupid. In spite of the aversion by masses, there still exist a large number of people who, day and night wait for the arrival of their perfect half. This anticipation for an event is declared as “imaginary” and “fairy-tale”, leading to loneliness and desperation. But believe in yourself in those darkest times because that holds the key to success. A soul mate is someone with whom you’ve been connected for centuries and this thread helps the two souls to eventually find one another. Just like Hawk Girl found her soul mate and they both fought against Vandal Savage in “The Flash” (I love super heroes). It can be your best friend, your mother or even your pet! It is someone in whose eyes you see the entire world.
Plato in his “The Symposium” says, “…when one of them meets the other half, the actual half of himself, whether he be a lover of youth or a lover of another sort, the pair are lost in an amazement of love and friendship and intimacy and one will not be out of the other’s sight, as I may say, even for a moment…”
There are some things that can help you to manifest your soul mate.
1.Have a strong belief
No matter what other people say, it’s very important that you believe in the existence of your soul mate. For things to happen, we need to believe that they will actually happen. As said by the famous writer Paulo Coelho, “And, when you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you achieve it.” In order to attract the positive, you need to think only about the positive; if you continuously think about the negative aspect of waiting for the perfect one, it’s only going to delay or distract you from that path. Always hold on to that strong gut feeling that in the first place made you into believing in the existence of soul mates. Moreover, it’s crucial that you keep on affirming this to yourself regularly which helps in sending out positive vibrations in the universe.
Often, the process of waiting for your soul mate becomes a lonely one because you tend to look for that perfect one in every person you see but might end up losing your direction. In order for others to love you, you need to start loving yourself first! Many of us don’t even love ourselves. Don’t hesitate to open yourself, rather let yourself bloom fully; you always attract what you are. Your best life won’t begin when he/she arrives so, it’s better to enjoy the present time as it will never come back. Let yourself loose and break free from Netflix, go out explore.
Positive vibrations have a greater impact which can actually make miracles happen. There are levels of vibrations; the lowest will be the most negative and vice versa. Some ways to improve your vibrations are:-
- Nature walk
- Be grateful
4.Accept the imperfections
Generally, in the wait for that perfect person we tend to ignore a person who might even be our soul mate just because of some imperfections. One thing to remember is that, he/she is also going to be a human and would have a natural tendency to make mistakes. Every relation, whether it is marriage or friendship, succeeds with adjustment and acceptance. Let go of that “imaginary” flawless image and see the real picture.
About The Author
She’s pursuing M.A. in English and Cultural studies from Panjab University, Chandigarh. Her other interests are travelling, writing, cooking and animals