Q.) My boyfriend is in his late 20s, but this is his first real relationship. As we near our first anniversary, he’s starting to act weird. How can I calm him down before he totally freaks?
A.) Oye hoye, wah ji wah! Pehla ta ji congratulations ik saal hon nu. Dekho ji, ohda first time hai na? Ta hunda hai, it is bound to happen. Oh khuhi nu ikdum engulf karna is not easy, let him soak it all in, bus ohda dhyaan rakhi khushi khushi vich over excited na hoje, ohnu halka halka jya mehsus kara ki aina uchalan di lor nahi, ar naal naal ohnu pyaar da ehsaas vi hon de. Tainu apna first time vi yaad hona hi? Kinni k calm si? Tu vi aida hi uchli huni. Koi na aini chinta na kar, hojega calm, all you need to do is keep him close, love him unconditionally and make him realize that at this stage of life you cannot act like children. Help him through this, if tu nahi karengi ta kon krega help ohnu. So just let him bring out his feelings and love is tarike naal. Ohnu realise karvandi reh ki jada nahi uchalna, bus aini ji gal di chinta kardi ae kuriye.
Chalo take care and congratulations dubara.
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